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Moving Traditions CA Tzelem B-Mitzvah Family Education Program

We invite gender diverse/trans/nonbinary preteens and their parents to explore becoming Jewish teenagers—as it relates both to gender identity and to the passage into adolescence, honoring all aspects of who they are as they go through the b-mitzvah process.

In recognition of the additional aspects of the coming of age journey and the b-mitzvah process for young people with identities beyond the gender binary, we are excited to be offering a program specifically for those youth and their parents.

About the Program

This program grows out of two aspects of Moving Traditions research-based work that have served thousands of youth and their families for the past few years. The Moving Traditions B-Mitzvah Family Education Program is a family education-focused approach to b-mitzvah that connects Jewish wisdom to the interpersonal and social elements that come up as children enter the teen years. Moving Traditions’ Tzelem groups, offered in collaboration with Keshet, were created to serve the needs of trans and non-binary Jewish teens through monthly meetings with a trans or non-binary mentor. Recently some Tzelem groups have expanded to serve LGBTQ+ teens, many of whom are also exploring gender identity.

The Moving Traditions B-Mitzvah Program  – created by rabbis, social workers, and educators – aims to help parents and preteens to explore what it means to celebrate this milestone as part of their adolescent and gender journeys,  and what it means to be the center of attention during a life cycle ritual, to navigate expectations from friends and family, to find Jewish meaning in the ceremony, as well as looking at other social-emotional challenges and the joys associated with the b-mitzvah and coming of age. The program offers support for families and preteens seeking to build authentic rituals and ways of being on the day of their b-mitzvahs and every day, while countering cultural pressures that encourage the performance of a singular way to be – a Jew, a family, a gendered human.

Please note that this program is not a preparation for a b-mitzvah ceremony, but a place to explore together the many issues related to becoming a teenager, and gender identity, that come up during that process. If your family is looking for a synagogue or community to prepare for b-mitzvah ceremony, we are happy to connect you with our Supporting Partners!

Getting Started

The program consists of eight Zoom sessions during the school year, led by facilitator Chaplain Reed Kolber (they/them). Half of the sessions will be for the preteens only, and half will include their parents. In family sessions, there will both be discussions all together, as well as in breakout rooms for parents and preteens separately. During the family sessions, guest facilitators from our Supporting Partners* will join to co-facilitate.

The group will meet at 2:00 p.m. PST on the following dates: October 23, November 20, December 11, January 22, February 12, March 12, April 23, May 7

Registration fee: $250 per family; please be in touch if the cost is a barrier.

For questions or more information, contact Julia Papiyan at jpapiyan@movingtraditions.org or Reed Kolber at rkolber@gmail.com.

Registration coming soon.

Facilitator Bio: Reed Kolber

Reed Kolber (they/them) is a passionate teacher, spiritual counselor, and musician. They lead Moving Tradition’s National Tzelem Group and the Tzelem B-Mitzvah Family Program. Reed has led Gender Spectrum’s online support groups for LGBTQ+ teens living all over the world.  With over fifteen years of experience across Jewish movements and interfaith settings, Reed completed their chaplaincy residency at St. Mary’s Medical Center, where they focused on bringing yoga, music, and spirituality practices to the adolescent psychiatric ward. Reed is a hospice chaplain, certified massage therapist, and yoga teacher, and has had a spiritual counseling, life cycle facilitation, and bodywork private practice for the past decade. Reed received their Bachelor of Arts from Brandeis University in Women’s and Gender Studies. They studied at Pardes in Jerusalem in a Year Fellowship Program and for two years at the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies. Reed completed a Masters in Judaic Studies, specializing in Jewish Values, Ethics and Action from the Academy of Jewish Religion of California. They have received several Jewish Innovation grants from Reconstructing Judaism, Clal, The Mintz Family Foundation, The Levinson Foundation, and The Jim Joseph Foundation.  Reed lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with their partner Maggie.

Program Sponsors:

This program is offered with the support of the following partners:

   
 

 

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